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The question every bilingual parent gets asked
Does a second language delay a child’s speech?
It is the most common worry bilingual parents hear, usually from someone who loves the child. The research answer is a clear no — with three things worth knowing about how bilingual vocabularies grow, and one about how to count them.

The milestones arrive on time
Babies raised with two languages from birth babble at the same age, say their first words at about the same age, and start combining words at about the same age as babies raised with one.1 A study that followed bilingual infants — including children learning a signed and a spoken language at once — found first words and first two-word combinations landing in the same windows as the monolingual norms, in both languages.1 Two languages do not take turns in a child’s head; they grow side by side.
The short version: bilingualism does not cause language delay. A bilingual child who is late to talk would have been late with one language too — and deserves the same check, counting words in both.
Where the myth comes from
Count a bilingual two-year-old’s words in only one of their languages and you will often get a smaller number than a monolingual child’s. That is real, and it is the whole basis of the worry. But a child who hears Spanish at home and English at daycare knows leche and milk, zapato and shoe — and also words that exist only in one setting: the daycare’s circle time, the grandmother’s abuelita. When researchers count total vocabulary (every word in either language) or conceptual vocabulary (every concept, counting leche/milk once), bilingual toddlers match their monolingual peers.2, 3 The delay was in the counting, not the child.
Three things that are true about bilingual vocabularies
1. Input is split, so each language grows with its share
A child who hears a language 30% of the time will, for a while, know fewer words in it than a child who hears it 100% of the time. The size of a bilingual toddler’s vocabulary in each language tracks how much of that language they hear.2, 4 This is not a deficit; it is arithmetic, and it is also the practical lever: more minutes in a language means more words in it.
2. Mixing is a skill, not confusion
Bilingual toddlers put words from both languages in one sentence — “more leche”, “quiero ball”. This is code-mixing, bilingual adults do it too, and children do it according to the grammar of the languages involved and according to who they are talking to.5 A two-year-old who says “agua please” to a grandparent and “water please” at daycare is not muddled. They are choosing.
3. A delay, when there is one, is not caused by the second language
Children with genuine language disorders can and do become bilingual, and there is no evidence that dropping a language helps them; the professional guidance is to support both.6 If a bilingual child needs speech therapy, the therapy should account for both languages — and the family’s home language should stay.
What to tell the doctor
If a pediatrician or a relative suggests dropping a language to “help” a late-talking toddler, three sentences cover it:
- Bilingual children reach language milestones on the same schedule as monolingual children.1
- Vocabulary should be counted across both languages; that is the standard in the research.3
- If there is a real delay, the guidance from speech-language professionals is to evaluate in both languages and keep both.6
Then keep the word list. Write down every word your child says in either language, including animal sounds and signs. It is the most useful thing you can hand a speech-language pathologist, and it answers the question “how many words?” the way the research answers it. The late-talker guide has the line clinicians use and the signs that warrant a call.
What actually helps a bilingual toddler
The same things that help any toddler, in each language: a real person, naming what the child is looking at, in the moment.7 If the minority language is the one that gets fewer minutes, give it the routines — bath, bedtime, breakfast — because routines repeat, and repetition is what turns exposure into words. If you use our cards, the useful trick is the language switch on the card: the same picture can be milk at breakfast and leche at dinner, and the child learns that a thing can have two names, which is the whole idea. The bilingual toddler guide goes through the research on how, household by household.
What this is based on
Sources
- Petitto, L. A., Katerelos, M., Levy, B. G., Gauna, K., Tétreault, K. & Ferraro, V. (2001). Bilingual signed and spoken language acquisition from birth: implications for the mechanisms underlying early bilingual language acquisition. Journal of Child Language, 28(2), 453–496. doi:10.1017/S0305000901004718
- Hoff, E., Core, C., Place, S., Rumiche, R., Señor, M. & Parra, M. (2012). Dual language exposure and early bilingual development. Journal of Child Language, 39(1), 1–27. doi:10.1017/S0305000910000759
- Core, C., Hoff, E., Rumiche, R. & Señor, M. (2013). Total and conceptual vocabulary in Spanish–English bilinguals from 22 to 30 months: implications for assessment. Journal of Speech, Language, and Hearing Research, 56(5), 1637–1649. doi:10.1044/1092-4388(2013/11-0044)
- Pearson, B. Z., Fernández, S. C., Lewedeg, V. & Oller, D. K. (1997). The relation of input factors to lexical learning by bilingual infants. Applied Psycholinguistics, 18(1), 41–58. doi:10.1017/S0142716400009863
- Byers-Heinlein, K. & Lew-Williams, C. (2013). Bilingualism in the early years: what the science says. LEARNing Landscapes, 7(1), 95–112. PMC6168212
- American Speech-Language-Hearing Association, Bilingual Service Delivery (Practice Portal): assessment and intervention in both languages. asha.org
- Kuhl, P. K., Tsao, F.-M. & Liu, H.-M. (2003). Foreign-language experience in infancy: effects of short-term exposure and social interaction on phonetic learning. PNAS, 100(15), 9096–9101. pnas.org
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